Being Crystal

Because Really? When it comes down to it, it’s all about me, anyway…. Dating, Parenting, Friendship, Fashion, Philosophy, Whatever.. It’s About My Life…

Getting Past The Gossip Girl (or Guy)

Sometimes, no matter how much I’d like to believe the contrary, it can feel like we never really escape high school.  Who gossiped with whom about what, who got invited to what party, who showed up to what event and who didn’t, what’s the status of so-and-so’s relationship and did you hear what they said?!…(…)

Love Yourself

Love Yourself

Have you ever just had to deal with something (or maybe someone)  you just couldn’t get behind?   Of course you have… we all have.  Last year, for me it was lists.  You know what I’m talking about:  influencer marketing lists typically made from who’s the noisiest on Twitter… something I think about every time I hear the(…)

Okay Guys: Enough is Enough

There’s a lot of talk in our digital space about the special place reserved in hell for women who don’t help other women.  For the most part, I agree with that… although, personally I’m not going to promote or help anyone just because they’re a woman.   They also have to be competent and likable for(…)

  1. Best Blogs 1 May 2015 | ChristopherinHR: [...] Crystal Miller knows whats going on. Here Cystal speaks to feminism, sexism and just living a life. Do you…

  2. Jordan: Great points here. It's so important to work WITH each other, not against each other. You often don't realize how…

Being Crystal: Why I Stay(ed) and Why I Left

There are things which we hold close to our chest, not really wanting to share with others.  Of course, there are all kinds of reasons for it; but two stick out when it comes to domestic abuse:  there is a sad reality of judgement against the victim and a lack of desire to understand those(…)

  1. Martin: Crystal - Thanks so much for choosing to share this - it's brave. Unbelievable that you had to endure this.…

  2. Shauna: Big Big hugs. You are very brave and I'm sorry you had to go through all that, especially with no…

    • Crystal: My parents were there. And I was "lucky" because it wasn't a daily, weekly or even monthly occurrence. We (my…

  3. Todd Raphael: I'm so glad you're OK. My best wishes always.

  4. John Jorgensen: Wow...just another example of your strength. Thank you for sharing.

  5. Christopher: I don't have the words to say I'm sorry you and your daughters experienced this - but I also don't…

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Being Crystal:  This is NOT the Dating from “Sex in the City” #NSFW

Being Crystal: This is NOT the Dating from “Sex in the City” #NSFW

Let me warn you all up front:  this is TOTALLY rantastic, has nothing to do with work and is really me just working out the frustrations of dating in 2014. For anyone that knows me well, they know that even though I haven’t been dating since I was fifteen (and I’m divorced, so I have(…)

  1. Kevin Quinn: Anyone that has dated knows that there are wackos everywhere, I discount those as their behavior cannot be generalized. Once…

    • Crystal Miller: Thanks, Kevin! Your honesty point made me laugh (though I completely agree with it).

The #Leadership Struggles of an #ENTJ: Judge Less, Meditate More

I’ve been trying to meditate to the thought that Pink shared in this picture all morning.  Turns out? Meditation is not my strong suit.  My mind works in a dozen different directions at any given time, so focusing in on a singular train of thought is a bit difficult.  In fact, the closest I get(…)

Quick Thoughts: Don’t Shoot the Messenger

Heard this recently in conversation and thought it was a pretty interesting turn of phrase.  Almost always, it either precedes or sums up communication unpleasantries. Bottom line, it means two things: That the bearer of bad news doesn’t want to take accountability for whatever it was being said because it “wasn’t their call,” and That(…)

  1. Best Blogs 16 May 2014 | ChristopherinHR: [...] Crystal Miller reflects on a simple phrase we use without thinking even while knowing full well what it implies.…

You Don’t Want Me That Way…. (At Least You Shouldn’t)

There’s a trend that’s growing (1) that I’m not particularly fond of.  That trend, my friends, is shaming people.  Not as a punishment like in the picture, though; but rather shaming someone into a desired action or outcome.  In fact, as a society it seems like we’ve been busy “shaming” people all over the place, all over(…)

  1. Stephen O'Donnell: In all forms of online communications, especially SM, lines are being crossed all over the place. Without the benefit of…

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